Reimagining Imposter Syndrome

Reimagining Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome is a commonly reported experience among the women I coach. I too have felt like an imposter at times. But lately, I’ve had to re-evaluate my relationship to this term.

At the start of my career, I entered a top business school. I felt like a fraud. I didn’t doubt that I was smart enough to be there. Having graduated from a competitive college, I didn’t doubt my ability to get good grades or graduate with honors. It was the soft skills that made me wonder if I had the qualities to become the leader that top business schools expected out of its students.

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Live Your One Wild Life

Live Your One Wild Life

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” - from The Summer Day poem by Mary Oliver

Decades ago, I met a man who volunteered with a non-profit organization that provided seminars to help Korean American youth with their career choices. He told me that the organization had held a career summit for medicine. The event was standing room-only as students and their parents crowded into the seminar room. Later, the organization held a summit on journalism careers, and only three people showed up. As a writer and a creative, I was saddened to hear about the turnout at the journalism event because it reminded me of my own struggles to find a career path in a creative field.

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How to Gracefully Deal with Transitions

How to Gracefully Deal with Transitions

Transition brings up so many uncomfortable emotions. When I took my first leap out of a corporate career and started my own company, I faced so much fear and anxiety. When the future is unknown, questions abound. How will I make a living? Will anyone hire me? How do I do this? Uncertainty can whip you into a frenzy of what ifs. What if I can’t make pay my bills? What if I'm not capable of running a business? What if if I fail? Deep Breath.  Here are some things to keep in mind about transitions.

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